Life Is Life... Fight For It

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By A.Dot.Baybee

The Truth Is...

The truth is very powerful, as it has the potential to ruin lives, as much as it can also cure lives, people are often seeking knowledge, but surely to seek knowledge, we also have to seek the truth, people often say that 'the truth hurts.' I believe if you cannot take the truth then you simply need to develop yourself as a person, sometimes you may not even need to be told the truth, sometimes, people will show you without even realising it themselves; I, myself have learnt this the hard way;

"I Can Never Trust You..."

This is not an article telling you how hard life can be, neither is it an article telling you what to do when life brings you down to your knees, begging for the slightest bit of sympathy; even from a stranger, this is simply just an article on when life tells you something about yourself that you did not know yourself, when even those closest give you a reason not to believe anymore, people will often tell you how you cannot trust anyone but yourself and how you should trust your family, because at the end of the day, they are the ones that will always be there for you, well, I would love to ask those people myself; what if it is your family who are the ones who are bringing you down? What if it is your own father who has lost trust in you, therefore you also losing trust in them?

Sometimes, in life, you can carry on saying to yourself, that you can change your ways, become a better person, in one way or another, or you can simply ignore those people who are doubting you, prove not just them wrong, but prove yourself wrong and admit to not just yourself, but to everyone, that you are who you are and I am not going to change, no matter what life does to me, I will fight each and every battle life brings to me!

I know exactly what it is like to think that you may have lost that person that you love the most out of everyone in the entire world, even for that split second, the anger and the shivering it can cause to think you may have lost that person, not literally, but their soul, their personality, their smile that never failed to bring a smile on your own face. I, myself, for that split second believed in 'black magic.' Often, people will say that your mother is the one who gives you birth, therefore is the most important out of the two parents and that the father is simply the provider, for some people, a father is all that they have, some people do not know what it is like to have a mother to confide in, because that's how destiny prevailed it to be. I know exactly what it is like to immediately lose faith in yourself, just because you have lost that one person, even for that split second.

Then you suddenly wake up and realise that I will fight for it, I will fight for my father, I will fight for myself to have him back, I will fight for what is right. You realise that there are people in much worse situations out there and that they would probably give their right arm to be in your situation, if you never let yourself back down before without fighting for it, then why back down now?

I am not going to tell you what my problem was or is, but what I am going to say is that, no matter how much you may think that you will never trust that person, or yourself even, if you even care about that little orphan on the street begging for water, you will give it a try anyway, you will give life another try.... And another.... And another

Comments

Resh 17 months ago

dis is soo gurd...i love dah las bit, 'giv lyk anova try' :)

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AEvans Level 7 Commenter 17 months ago

Impressive! Keep expressing yourself you are a very talented writer.

zsawant 17 months ago

that is so insperational

Zainy06 17 months ago

awsome great fantastic very very touchy a feel good read indeed

azzy zahra 17 months ago

realii nicee..x and well said.. that wa ppl need to give dm a new life to move on from their past.. :D.x

Amir 17 months ago

thats grate i loved it tbh keep the good work commin :)

Murteza 17 months ago

i found this amazing, truly touched my heart. it has inspired me and boosted my confidence, thank you

Pachuca213 17 months ago

Very touching!

ahmad 'skadoosh' chattun 17 months ago

good stuff it has boosted my confidence

saad khan 17 months ago

deeeeeeeeeeepppp

sam 17 months ago

An amazing article that keeps the reader intrigued from the beginning.

Awais R 17 months ago

Very inspirational + heart warming! :)

wazzuuup 17 months ago

its very deep and inspirational :) congrats

Zulfi shamsa 17 months ago

Woah really good stuff, just makes you realise a few things in life. very intriuging, just gives you a bit more confidence in your self. I like it :))

sami 17 months ago

That was deep and not too long, just the way i like it

vip 17 months ago

Impressed

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KoffeeKlatch Gals Level 6 Commenter 17 months ago

You're right, it is good. How sad it is that it is your family that brings you down, they should be lifting you up. Don't give up, it takes awhile to get going on HubPages. By the way, welcome. Voted up, beautiful and you've got your first followerer. Good luck.

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sammyfiction 17 months ago

Hi A.Dot.Bayee, this is a nice hub. In response to you request, KoffeeKlatch Gals is right. Traffic to your hub(s) will take time. Try participating in forums that you take interest in, or follow hubbers who write interesting hubs, and they will generally return the favour, by following you. Its kinda good hub etiquite. Try not to promote your hubs through url links on peoples comment sections too much though, their hub is about them, and their topic.

Welcome to hubpages, I hope you have great success from this! I will check in now and again :) SF

Esmaa' Gurbuzz 17 months ago

heyy... i lost a loved one too, and after i read dis it changed alot of things in my life, da way i look at things and how i act next to my loved onesz'

thanksz for dis, it has changed my life alot ? x

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Pearldiver 17 months ago

Welcome to the truth, as you said yourself, it often hurts. But it also has the knack of leveling a lie! Practice the one thing that I found my most powerful advice and that is adaptable to every life situation. "Never... Never Listen to Anybody More Negative Than Yourself!" In that way, you will always embrace positive elements and draw them into your life and those of others! Perhaps with this wisdom, you have the positive opportunity to also never be in a situation, where 'the truth' can hurt.

Nice writing btw.. Welcome to HP and a place that such writing is appreciated, by others that also write well. Take Care.

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Sylvia Leong 17 months ago

Great Hub! This really hit home for me.

Constructive feedback can help you gain in leaps & bounds. However, negative comments & treatment, especially from family members can cut very deep. My family is very controlling & critical to the point that I was paralyzed from even trying to achieve. It took a long time & gargantuan effort but I don't associate with them anymore. I also "delete" friends who try to cut me down.

Sad...

But now I'm free, flying high, achieving my dreams & I'm very happy.

HubPages is an amazing place! Keep posting. I'm following you now & look forward to more.

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Emily Hopkins 17 months ago

Keep writing if it makes you happy, no matter how many followers you get on Hubpages, or anywhere else. And in life, people come and go, they grow and so do you. Change is part of nature, and sometimes it takes awhile before things can grow and flourish.

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Cracknutcase Level 1 Commenter 16 months ago

Inspirational...! Yes, everybody must give themselves a chance over and over again! YOU are the most important person to URSELF should be the moto...

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katiem2 16 months ago

You are off to a great start. I look forward to reading more of your work. Welcome to HubPages :) Katie

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N.E. Wright 16 months ago

Wow!!!

You really made me think.

Thanks for sharing.

Take Care,

N.E.

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getitrite 16 months ago

umm...maybe that's true.

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hoodieweather 16 months ago

Always fight for what you believe in. Very nice hub. :)

surlyoldcat 16 months ago

Well written and thoughtful. You have a nice future here and (I hope) outside of HubPages. Keep submitting, do it because you love it, and don't stop believing in yourself.

Do more, that gets you more people drawn to your hubs.

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judyjet72 16 months ago

Nice Hub....How do I "sign my name" to the creative writing forum on saw you on? Peace.

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ladyjane1 Level 3 Commenter 16 months ago

Very nice piece of writing here, I think many people can associate with it. Great job expressing yourself. Cheers.

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ripplemaker Level 6 Commenter 16 months ago

Give life a chance..and life will love you back! Thank you for this message of inspiration!

Congratulations on your Hubnuggets nomination! Head this way to vote! http://hubpages.com/_hubnuggets6/hub/A-HubNugget-i

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fetty 16 months ago

You are exploring that age old problem, "What's it all about?" in an eloquent fashion. You have experienced great pain but you have also grown exponentially. Keep on writing and welcome to Hubpages. Congrats. on your nomination.

prema 16 months ago

Impressive.. m touched!!! hmm..

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Pete Maida Level 1 Commenter 16 months ago

Life is often a struggle. When someone I know is going through and tough time I tell them to get mad. I tell them pretty much what you are saying.

As far a promotion goes I think you are doing a rather clever job. You are certainly a lot more creative and energetic in promotion than I am.

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Pamela99 Level 7 Commenter 16 months ago

I think you have talent to write and hope you write some more hubs. One thing about life is there are good times and tough times but they all pass my eventually. Life will get better for you too.

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daydreamer13 16 months ago

I hear ya! I felt every word of this! Wonderfully put!

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Twilight Lawns Level 7 Commenter 15 months ago

Nice to see someoen writing so well and articulately on HubPages. Great sentiments, my friend.

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howtomodify 8 months ago

Great hubs plz keep in touch like me

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